Obituaries

Hailey Palumbo
B: 2001-08-18
D: 2017-05-23
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Palumbo, Hailey
Victor Tagliareni
D: 2017-05-19
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Tagliareni, Victor
Edward T. Ryan, Jr.
D: 2017-05-18
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Ryan, Jr., Edward T.
Helen Koschek
B: 1926-02-20
D: 2017-05-18
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Koschek, Helen
Thomas McCarthy
B: 1936-10-16
D: 2017-05-15
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McCarthy, Thomas
Doris Garrity
B: 1923-01-28
D: 2017-05-13
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Garrity, Doris
William Reichle
B: 1925-05-02
D: 2017-05-12
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Reichle, William
Mildred Tompkins
B: 1930-04-14
D: 2017-05-10
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Tompkins, Mildred
Louis Lombardo
B: 1945-12-05
D: 2017-05-10
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Lombardo, Louis
Helen Goehry
B: 1927-02-27
D: 2017-05-09
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Goehry, Helen
Ninamarie Koenck
B: 1932-01-29
D: 2017-05-07
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Koenck, Ninamarie
Gary Corbett
B: 1964-08-13
D: 2017-05-07
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Corbett, Gary
Sharon Adams
B: 1950-06-16
D: 2017-05-06
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Adams, Sharon
Lawrence Sitkowski
B: 1948-02-21
D: 2017-05-05
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Sitkowski, Lawrence
Lorenzo Scochemaro
B: 1936-12-03
D: 2017-05-04
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Scochemaro, Lorenzo
Emily Bush
B: 1916-04-15
D: 2017-05-02
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Bush, Emily
Karen Schoenig
B: 1937-01-22
D: 2017-05-02
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Schoenig, Karen
Alpheus Norman, III
B: 1928-08-21
D: 2017-05-02
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Norman, III, Alpheus
Kathleen Fearns
B: 1929-11-22
D: 2017-05-02
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Fearns, Kathleen
Donald Dannucci
B: 1937-01-15
D: 2017-04-30
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Dannucci, Donald
Sherry DeParlier
B: 1961-12-21
D: 2017-04-30
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DeParlier, Sherry

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Before, During and Beyond

Timothy E. Ryan Owner/Senior Director

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Celebration of Life

Many families today want a service which celebrates the life of their loved one. We introduce them to the concept of a life celebration, and provide support in designing a celebration that is as unique as the life of their loved one.  

life celebration sparklerPlanning a Celebration of Life

We always enjoy working together with families in planning a celebration of life for their loved one. While it can be a challenge to put together an event that both pays tribute to and celebrates the life and spirit of, a complex individual; it's also one of the most rewarding things any one of us can do for someone we've loved and lost.

Sarah York, opens her beautifully-crafted book, Remembering Well, with the very personal story about how her family chose to pay tribute to her mother. "My mother died in April 1983. . . she didn't want a funeral. 'Get together and have a party,' she had said when the topic was allowed to come up." However, she was quick to tell readers that the survivors did not honor the request. "We needed the ritual. We needed to say good-bye, but we also needed a ritual that would honor her spirit and would be faithful to her values and beliefs."

When Ms. York acknowledges the position of her family; that they needed not a party but a ritual; she teaches us all something important: the celebration of life events we plan with families should be shaped as much by their own emotional and spiritual needs, as their desire to celebrate the life lived.

While celebrations of life are not burdened by social expectations—they can be pretty much anything you want them to be—it's important to realize that the event you're planning should meet the emotional needs of the guests. So, think about exactly who will be there, and what they're likely to want or need. Then, bring in those unique lifestyle and personality characteristics of the deceased; perhaps add live music or refreshments, and you've got the beginnings of a remarkable celebration of life.

Celebrations of life are intended to lift everyone's spirits by focusing on positive memories. And as we wrote in the above introduction, if you'd like to learn more about celebrations of life, we invite you to read our 9 Steps to Planning a Celebration of Life. There you'll discover how our experience in arranging and hosting life celebration will guide you in the process.

 

Sources:
Remembering Well: Rituals for Celebrating Life & Mourning Death, Sara York